My name is Josh, and in a minute I’m going to start telling you a story about how my life was saved from financial ruin by one smart decision that I made. Before I tell it, however, I want you to know a bit about me.
I’ve an average guy, and I have spent most of my life working in a restaurant. I am a very good waiter, and my tips have always been the highest in the restaurant that I worked at. It was not uncommon for me to make $500 or $600 in a weekend working only Friday and Saturday nights. However, my tax-free income would eventually lead me to a financial crossroads, where I was left with few decisions.
My decision to start a home business was the smartest thing that I’ve ever done – let me tell you why.
Poor Decisions
Last September I lost my job. I had become so accustomed to my job that I guess I had become too comfortable; I was starting to lose respect for the managers, and my attitude was starting to show in my work. I was a good waiter, and I knew it. I knew that I could demand just about anything that I wanted, including a car allowance (which I was given), and they would probably give in to my demands.
I guess that the restaurant had finally had enough, and I found myself unemployed as of September 2. I immediately got another job in a different restaurant as my resume was nothing short of stellar. Two days later I was fired again, for what I imagine are pretty similar reasons.
I wasn’t worried, however, as I had saved a couple of thousand dollars for an event just like this. I continued to live, and spend, as if nothing had changed. As far as my family and friends were concerned, I was doing fine and I certainly didn’t need anyone’s help.
The decision to spend as if I was gainfully employed was a poor one, and within three weeks I had no savings, no job, and thanks to my poor attitude, no money to pay rent either. I was getting desperate, and I wound up selling my home theater to pay for rent on October 1. I can recall feeling quite pathetic, as I had never had to sell any of my possessions to get by before.
However, I remained optimistic and confident that I would find a job soon.
No Patience
Time went by, and still I had no job. No one wanted to hire me – I guess my reputation had preceded me, and no one wants to work with a self-righteous waiter with a god complex and one heck of an attitude problem.
I was getting nervous, as time continued to pass by and I was still without an income. I had started to eat low-budget food, and within a few weeks my main staple became Ramen noodles that I purchased from a dollar store at $0.25 a package. I would eat two or three packages a day, and by the end of October I was eating less than $1.50 of food per day.
It had been nearly two months since I was fired, and still I was unemployed. November’s rent looked in the distance, and I began to wonder how I was going to pay it. I decided to sell my car.
No Luck
The day I planned to list my car I was struck with a catastrophe: I came outside to find the entire front end of my car destroyed in what appeared to be a hit and run. Someone had hit my car in front of my house and sped off, leaving me with a vehicle to repair.
I can still remember my stomach sinking, that sickly feeling swelling up in the back of my throat. The only thought that went through my mind was “Oh my god – I’m screwed.”
Still reeling from the damage done to my car, I decided to speak with my landlord and let him know what was up. He was sympathetic, and he told me that I could be a couple of weeks late if it was easier for me. I remember shaking his hand as if he was my best friend.
I became very depressed, as just two months prior I had been making more money than I knew what to do with. Of course, I didn’t have the sense to save any of it.
This story will be continued in the next article.
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Haha holy crap. Reminds me of the time I first got kicked out of home with a few hundred bucks in my pocket.. and also when I ran short of money one season when business was slow.
Excelent post
Exceltn post man
Great story and very good description. I saw a lot of images while I was reading this post. Can’t wait to read more …
Your car being hit must have hurt a lot but I’m sure it taught you a lesson - don’t try to resort to selling things away for money… soon you would have ended up selling sex.
I take it there is a part two to this post!!!
The issueof tips being tax-free is so controversial. I have waited tables, but I’m not sure I agree it shoudl be tax free.
Some parts of this story reminds me a memory has both good and bad moments.
I was working at a restaurant after High School, and worked 17 hours in a day. That killed my energy, i couldn’t able to find any time to iron my clothes.
When the day started (8 am), i was clearing whole saloon, then serving breakfast for tourists, and have a break, then come back for lunch, dinner and Turkish Night (this is the longest part cus starts at 10 pm and ends 5 am in the morning)
I could only manage to work a month. But i learned a lot of think, to earn much, you have to work much. And you need to know what you doing
Very true to the way life goes. Once the ball starts rolling down hill…
Very well written. I’m looking forward to reading part 2 right now.